[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.csacek.cz\/kdy-ze-vztahu-rychle-vycouvat\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.csacek.cz\/kdy-ze-vztahu-rychle-vycouvat\/","headline":"Kdy ze vztahu rychle vycouvat?","name":"Kdy ze vztahu rychle vycouvat?","description":"Prvn\u00ed m\u011bs\u00edce spole\u010dn\u00e9ho vztahu pat\u0159\u00ed k t\u011bm, na kter\u00e9 se dob\u0159e vzpom\u00edn\u00e1. Zamilovanost bo\u0159\u00ed rozd\u00edly a vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed iluzi, \u017ee takhle \u00fa\u017easn\u00e9 to bude u\u017e „a\u017e do smrti“. Sta\u010d\u00ed se ale pod\u00edvat kolem sebe – v ka\u017ed\u00e9m\u010c\u00edst d\u00e1le...<\/a>","datePublished":"2018-02-19","dateModified":"2023-05-05","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.csacek.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"csacek.cz\n","url":"https:\/\/www.csacek.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/9d25b0af9840660883a67790aa4f595ddc226aa4680c4cf7bc03a25c14fcef85?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/9d25b0af9840660883a67790aa4f595ddc226aa4680c4cf7bc03a25c14fcef85?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"csacek.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/csacek.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a337381_w2322_t1550562225.jpg","url":"https:\/\/csacek.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a337381_w2322_t1550562225.jpg","height":"","width":""},"url":"https:\/\/www.csacek.cz\/kdy-ze-vztahu-rychle-vycouvat\/","about":["Neza\u0159azen\u00e9"],"wordCount":547,"articleBody":"Prvn\u00ed m\u011bs\u00edce spole\u010dn\u00e9ho vztahu pat\u0159\u00ed k t\u011bm, na kter\u00e9 se dob\u0159e vzpom\u00edn\u00e1. Zamilovanost bo\u0159\u00ed rozd\u00edly a vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed iluzi, \u017ee takhle \u00fa\u017easn\u00e9 to bude u\u017e „a\u017e do smrti“. Sta\u010d\u00ed se ale pod\u00edvat kolem sebe – v ka\u017ed\u00e9m vztahu p\u0159ijde doba (tedy pokud ve vztahu vydr\u017e\u00edte), kdy se z v\u00e1s stane „hrdina v\u0161edn\u00edho dne“. A na co by si mu\u017e m\u011bl u \u017eeny d\u00e1t pozor, aby mu i tyto v\u0161edn\u00ed dny nezho\u0159kly? \t\tFyzick\u00e9 napad\u00e1n\u00ed– pakli\u017ee m\u00e1 \u017eena v\u00fdbuchy vzteku, napad\u00e1 v\u00e1s, uhod\u00ed nebo po v\u00e1s h\u00e1z\u00ed v\u011bci (a nejsou to roztomil\u00ed ply\u0161\u00e1ci), sprost\u011b nad\u00e1v\u00e1, dovede b\u00fdt slovn\u011b agresivn\u00ed, je to varovn\u00fd sign\u00e1l pro tzv. vyklizen\u00ed pozic. I kdy\u017e se s uveden\u00fdm chov\u00e1n\u00edm lze setk\u00e1vat \u010dast\u011bji na stran\u011b mu\u017e\u016f, ani u \u017een nen\u00ed bohu\u017eel v\u00fdjimkou. Nenechte se zm\u00e1st sliby \u010di omluvami, \u017ee p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011b se tohle nestane. Zkuste si p\u0159ipustit, \u017ee situace se bude sp\u00ed\u0161 zhor\u0161ovat. \t\tPod\u00edl\u00ed se na trestn\u00e9 \u010dinnosti– i v tomto p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b by v\u00e1m v hlav\u011b m\u011blo blikat \u010derven\u00e9 varovn\u00e9 sv\u011btlo: POZOR! Nenechte se lapit do p\u0159edstavy, \u017ee drobn\u00e1 kr\u00e1de\u017e je vzru\u0161uj\u00edc\u00ed a pat\u0159\u00ed k milostn\u00e9 p\u0159edeh\u0159e. Ani podstatn\u011b intelektu\u00e1ln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed zp\u016fsoby obohacov\u00e1n\u00ed neomlouvaj\u00ed. Rychle se zbavte iluze, \u017ee \u017eenu p\u0159ed\u011bl\u00e1te. \t\tChorobn\u011b \u017e\u00e1rl\u00ed– zpo\u010d\u00e1tku se m\u016f\u017eete myln\u011b domn\u00edvat, \u017ee je to velk\u00fd z\u00e1jem o v\u00e1s. Nen\u00ed. Partnerka v\u00e1s chce m\u00edt pod kontrolou a doslova hled\u00e1 z\u00e1minky, aby se d\u00edvala do va\u0161ich kapes, telefonu, po\u0161ty… Zdrav\u00fd vztah je zalo\u017een\u00fd na d\u016fv\u011b\u0159e, zat\u00edmco p\u0159ehnan\u00e1 kontrola je spojen\u00e1 s uplat\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00edm moci. Pokud v\u00e1m tento druh „z\u00e1jmu“ lichot\u00ed, sna\u017ete se p\u0159ij\u00edt na to pro\u010d. \t\tNechce pracovat, vyu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 v\u00e1s– jednodu\u0161e nepracuje, i kdy\u017e j\u00ed v tom nebr\u00e1n\u00ed zdravotn\u00ed nebo jin\u00e9 v\u00e1\u017en\u00e9 omezen\u00ed. V p\u0159edchoz\u00ed pr\u00e1ci ji nedocenili, b\u00fdval\u00fd \u0161\u00e9f nadr\u017eoval kolegyni, pr\u00e1ce j\u00ed nebav\u00ed. Doma se povaluj\u00ed rozh\u00e1zen\u00e9 v\u011bci, va\u0159en\u00ed nepat\u0159\u00ed k jej\u00edm hobby, \u017eehlen\u00ed je nudn\u00e9. Opravdu chcete chodit do pr\u00e1ce a doma nastoupit druhou sm\u011bnu? \t\tJe z\u00e1visl\u00e1 na alkoholu, drog\u00e1ch– „u\u017e z\u00edtra s t\u00edm p\u0159estane“, sly\u0161\u00edte \u010dasto a mo\u017en\u00e1 tomu i v\u011b\u0159\u00edte. Je rozd\u00edl mezi ob\u010dasn\u00fdm ve\u010d\u00edrkem s alkoholem a pravideln\u00fdm pit\u00edm nebo u\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00edm drog. P\u0159ed\u011blat partnerku rozhodn\u011b nem\u00e1te \u0161anci, to mus\u00ed cht\u00edt jen ona sama, a i tak to je velk\u00e1 v\u00fdzva, kterou zvl\u00e1dnou jen n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed. \t\tJe v\u00e1m nev\u011brn\u00e1 i na za\u010d\u00e1tku vztahu– pokud u\u017e v prvn\u00edch t\u00fddnech zn\u00e1mosti zjist\u00edte, \u017ee nejste jedin\u00fd mu\u017e po jej\u00edm boku, a \u017ee va\u0161e partnerka takov\u00e1 byla i d\u0159\u00edve, pak ut\u00edkejte. Lep\u0161\u00ed u\u017e to prost\u011b nebude…  4.2\/5 - (13 votes) "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Kdy ze vztahu rychle vycouvat?","item":"https:\/\/www.csacek.cz\/kdy-ze-vztahu-rychle-vycouvat\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]